You guys should take me serious when I talk, life is not about childish love or sentimental love. This thing is not our culture. Don't do everything the white man does because you don't know his reasons. Many white guys marry women who are successful and far older than them. But we are different here.
What am I trying to say? Nigerian men, stop kneeling down to ask a girl for her hand in marriage. Many ladies of today don't have respect for you already, they wont even kneel to apologize to you when they wrong you either as your girlfriend or as your wife. They feel equal to you, if not bigger than you.
The picture above is a clear example. The guy on his knees begged his girlfriend to marry him at a popular mall in Lagos and the girl looked at him on the floor and said "NO". Just imagine the trash.
Guys, don't act cheap. Ask a girl for her hand in marry as a Real Man, if she is not interested because you did not go on your knees move on to another. There are many decent single ladies out there without any responsible man looking at their direction. They need you.
And don't get it twisted. Using a Fork to eat is not culture, getting education is not culture; it's a choice. You can decide not to get western education and still be successful. You can decide not to use Fork to eat and yet you will still eat your food to satisfaction.
But if you sell your respect to a lady simply because you want her to marry you, you are on your own.
culled:olufamous.com
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